Marie's Sunday Message - January 22nd, 2023

I love elephants!! They’re proof that God has a sense of humor; they have cankles, their nose and ears never stop growing, and the bones in their feet are perfectly shaped for high heels. So, it’s no wonder they sway back and forth when they’re standing…their feet hurt!! 🤣😂 So, when I saw this image by Sara Gagnon, it reminded me of one of my favorite stories. But not just because it has an elephant, but because of what he’s doing… 

Frank Sinatra was, without a doubt, a powerhouse. Even at 78 years old, fans still came in droves to see him! Tom Dreesen was a comedian who was Frank’s warm-up act for many years. He recalled one particular show when there were about 20,000 people in the audience. Sinatra was 3 songs into his set when he completely forgot the lyrics he was singing. He kept repeating, “I’m sorry, I’m sorry,” but the band didn’t know he stopped singing. So they kept playing. When the band finally realized he stopped, they began stopping, instrument by instrument, until there was a deafening silence in the auditorium. At that point, Dreesen thought Sinatra would lay his microphone down and go home to recognize the end of an incredible career. 

But then something happened. 

“A guy way up at the top of the audience stood up by himself and hollered out, ‘That’s ok Frank! That’s all right because we love you!’

Then he started to applaud. 

Then the guy next to him started to applaud. 

Then hundreds of people started to applaud.

Then thousands. 

Pretty soon the whole arena was cheering and yelling! Sinatra turned around and went back to center stage.” Dreesen continued, “he went into the next number which was ‘Mack the Knife’ and he absolutely drilled that song. He hit every nuance and every lyric. It was like he was 19 years old again…After he finished that song the crowd went nuts! He was ready to go onto the next number when he finally quieted them down. Then he stopped and pointed up to the guy and said, ‘I love you too, Pal.’ He sang for two years after that. That fan brought him from the ashes that night.” 

This sweet story shows that no one is above a hand on the shoulder, a friendly smile, or a word of encouragement. I was blessed to perform with Frank and have so much respect for him as an entertainer. In the end, despite all the success Sinatra saw, it came down to one lone fan in the audience who allowed him to finish his career on his own terms. What an incredible blessing. 

This story made me want to be that fan. 

Sometimes, we have to step out of the crowd and cheer someone on. Give the encouragement or praise needed for someone else to live their best life. The Lord is always with us, fighting our battles, hand in hand. But sometimes, he sends you and me in his place to help those in need. I believe that when you feel impressed to offer a kind word to a friend, family member, or even a complete stranger, it is our Heavenly Father sending us to them. Mark Twain remarked that he “could live two months on a good compliment”!   In the words of the biblical proverbs of Solomon: “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.” (Prov. 25:11.) 

Just as I was getting ready to send my #Sundaymessage a sweet friend of mine sent this to me “I believe people who consistently choose to do simple acts of love and compassion toward their fellow man can bring forth extraordinary results that can change both the life of the giver and that of the receiver.” She felt prompted to send it to me. I guess she’s listening to the angels around her.🥰 Coincidence? I don’t think so.😉

Having a voice of gladness, especially in today’s world, is needed by everyone. Through the precious gift of offering kind words to others, our hearts naturally soften too. And, as our hearts soften, we become closer to the Lord. Think of all the good that you could do by cheering someone on…a lone fan in the crowd. In doing so, your own life will be blessed.

My love to you all.

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Here are the next few weeks of the reading schedule I am following for those that have joined me:

• January 23–29: Matthew 3; Mark 1; Luke 3.

• January 30-February 5: Matthew 4; Luke 4-5

• February 6-12: John 2-4

• February 13-19: Matthew 5; Luke 6

Marie's Sunday Message - January 8th, 2023

I finished a new quilt and have another idea for one on the way.🥰👍 Quilting is a joy for me now that I found later in life while taking care of my mom. There’s something very satisfying about piecing together small bits of fabric to create a beautiful quilt. This is the latest one I’ve done, and also one of the most challenging so far. I made it for my grandson, Wolf, who loves dinosaurs. He even helped to pick out some of the fabrics with his mom’s and my help. 🥰

Can I just say this thing was so hard to do!!! I called in reinforcements to help me finish! My friend Chris Chamberlain, the master quilter, and her brother Josh(an amazing quilter by hobby and a heck of a UPS guy by trade 😂) helped me make it to the finish line! Just zoom in and look at the eye on one of the dinosaurs - that’s a tiny square within itself! And look at the tiny triangles that needed to be made in between the triceratops spikes on top of him too. They all had to be pieced together… I love the intricacy.🤪🤢😂 It all seemed too difficult at first, but Chris and Josh were not going to let me fail! 

After seeing this quilt done, I realized the process was a lot like our life. If you want, you can slide through experiences haphazardly, with no goals or patterns, and worst, never ask for help. Or we can be very exact and thoughtful in following God's instructions or pattern for happiness, making careful measurements, and eventually, something beautiful occurs. 

Jesus Christ is our master teacher, and when we study His life, He will show us how to make those careful measurements and even point out the flaws we make, then help us resew them correctly.  In Matthew 11: 28-30, the Savior gives us all the hope we need in this wonderful promise…

28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

This promise means everything to me. As a young girl, and even now, I’ve been through some difficult times. I know many of you have as well. But these words have given me great hope! I can imagine hearing this promise given directly from the Savior’s mouth and feeling that same hope that they did 2000 years ago. For us now, His promises haven’t changed because His words are eternal.

Remember, the promise to us is not that our burdens will be taken away, but they will be made lighter, and we will feel His power in our lives—giving us guidance, peace, inspiration, and a much-needed PATH!

I know this is true!!! In my life, God’s words mean everything to me. As I’ve learned about Him and trusted Him, I have felt my burdens lift. Just like Chris and Josh, the Savior was there helping me measure and cut, guiding me through some very difficult and very dark times when there was no place else for me to turn. I have learned through the years and tears that I find great joy in doing what God has asked me to do. It goes back to the quilt…Trusting in God brings happiness. Just like trusting in master quilters brings a beautiful creation, satisfaction, and happiness. 

I sometimes hear people say that living the commandments are difficult. Honestly, for me, NOT living them makes life more difficult! God’s commandments protect us from the snares of the world. They help us learn what true self-love actually is and not what the world says it is. True self-love is learning the joy of disciplining the natural man in us. It’s taking control of our physical bodies, our thoughts, and desires. True self-love is living within our means, focusing on having the wisdom to see the real truth and surrounding ourselves with good friends, and making sure we do all we can to uplift those around us. 

When we choose to overcome the world, that means everything from anger, judgment, rationalization, selfishness, or anything that can lead to us having addictive behaviors of the flesh, to name a few. When we can begin to see these flaws in us and start resewing ourselves (so to say), we become happier people for sure!

I know what you are thinking….how in the world do I do it? I want to be happier; I do. I want to turn my weaknesses into strengths, but that is such a long list. Believe me, I know. So, let’s go back to the quilt. Remember, It took meticulous work and many hours. Also, I started over more times than I can count because of the mistakes I made in measuring and sewing. But I had help…I knew Chris and Josh were not going to let me fail. I kept my eye on them and my goal, listened to their instructions, and sometimes even handed the whole project over to them. They didn’t do it for me because how could I learn? But they let me rest, just like the Savior who holds our burdens and sorrows, so they are lighter….also so I wouldn’t give up. 

I know January is a time for resolutions and goal-setting…I bet many of your resolutions are already in the rearview mirror! I included a joke that cracked me up😂 But how about we approach this differently? What if we take our weaknesses to the Savior? How about we lay them at His feet and then humbly plead with Him to show us where to start and how to make them our strengths? Where to start? I was always counseled as a child to begin with what is creating the most problems. Then trust Him! I know He will help with a lasting self-discovery. The scriptures inspire us to take an honest look at ourselves, so we can make the changes needed to improve and heal. But only through the Gospel of Jesus Christ and His atonement will we have the strength, desire, and power to overcome and do this. 

Believe me, our Savior can help us overcome anything!!!!!

Here’s my January reading assignment for the New Testament. I guess you could call it a pattern we’re following 😂 It might help you too! It’s not too late to catch up…. It’s never too late!!!! 💖👈😘 I mean, hey, look at my next project in these photos. I’m doing this next one on my embroidery machine. I know I’m crazy!😂 but I love a good challenge! Who wants to join me?😉🥰

• No January 2–8: Matthew 1; Luke 1.

• January 9–15: Matthew 2; Luke 2.

• January 16–22: John 1.

• January 23–29: Matthew 3; Mark 1; Luke 3.

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