In 2007, Chris Williams and his family were going out for dessert on a typical Friday night when a drunk driver hit them. His pregnant wife, one son, and his only daughter died on impact. He and his other son were rushed to the hospital where his older son, who had been out with friends, met them to begin the physical and emotional healing the now family of three would need. Chris said the first thing he heard after the accident in his mind while still on a gurney were the words, “Let this go,” and with that, he felt an immediate peace. He asked everyone around him to forgive the teenage driver. As he concentrated on forgiving the drive, the more he felt the Savior’s love for the teenager. The only way he would have the power to do that was through the Savior. By Chris simply acting as a vessel, the Savior was able to make miracles occur.
"And Jesus looking upon them saith, with men it is impossible, But with God nothing shall be impossible." Luke 1:37
Today Chris Williams, with the help of his Father in Heaven, has continued with his life. His sons are doing well, and he has remarried. Of course, this experience has been life's ultimate challenge, but they have always had the knowledge that life is eternal and the Savior is always with them.
Forgiveness… The Savior knew the importance of this “powerful” act when He said, in Luke 6:37, “Forgive and ye shall be forgiven.” Isn’t that a beautiful promise? The act of forgiveness has the power to lift burdens and carve out pain, leaving peace behind.
As we set about on God’s path to forgive, we need to understand what forgiveness is not. Forgiveness does not require condoning a wrong or allowing harmful behavior to continue. It also takes time. I read this counsel once and never forgot it.
I am so hopeful this coming year will give us a new beginning, and we can finally close the chapter on what has been a difficult year for us all. As we go forward with our focus on the Savior, we will accomplish great things!
